Hi Guys, my name is Phat Gurl J and I am a confidence coach. Seriously. My blog is a place where you come to feel free and connect with me and my stories.I want to help you all build confidence in some way, shape or form. What better way to do that the. giving you guys real life stories and tips on how to grow and love on yourself like you deserve. I have so many different topics to discuss with you all from self love to dealing with relationships to how to build confidence and so much more. I hope when you read my posts you comment how you feel after reading. I really want to resonate all kinds of emotions with you guys, because although we live in a weird world where most of us think that expressing emotions are bad, they're actually really vital on this journey we're all on called life.